2011 in Review

2011 has been A Year. With every con came a pro; with every bit of sorrow came excitement. (I know it’s usually the other way around – with the good comes the bad – but I prefer looking at it the other way.)

My mom was diagnosed and treated for breast cancer. It was the scariest, most painful thing I’ve ever gone through. Seeing my mom so vulnerable, it was horrible. But then came the good news – with surgery it could be removed. And then with a test, we could find out if there’s any chance of it coming back. There isn’t. She’s fine. She can start 2012 with a medically clean slate.

On the pro side, I received my master’s degree in library sciences, and realized how perfect I am for the profession. I’ve never been so involved and absorbed in my studies. I knew I was finally in the right field.

I lost my editing job at the magazine (due to a company-wide furlough), but within two weeks secured my first librarian position. As cheesy as it sounds, I feel like it all happened for a reason. I love my job, and although I know it’s only temporary (it goes through February – eek!), I still feel ridiculously connected to my co-workers, to the library, to the position.

I fulfilled my #1 resolution that I kept putting off ever year – I wrote my first book. It may never see the light of day, aside from my friends reading it, but the fact that it’s complete makes me proud. Of course, I’ll do everything in my power to get it published, but that’s for next year, right? (It’s still being edited!)

Most importantly – I got married! I’m now a Mrs. and despite all fears, it’s really quite lovely. Our wedding was amazing and truly one of those moments I’ll always remember. We went to Italy and Greece and started our resolution to see the world. S and I are ringing in the New Year tonight with friends, and we couldn’t be more excited – or happy.

There’s more, of course, but when looking back on this year, those are the stories that will stand out, the ones that’ll forever represent 2011. I’m not sure anything can compare with getting married, but I do look forward to the next year, and all it will bring. It’s time to start from scratch and try something new. I know the bad will come, but I also know the good will be right behind it, waiting to shine.

Grey’s Anatomy Musical Episode

If there’s one thing Grey’s Anatomy is good at, it’s keeping the audience guessing. That was proved once again after last night’s musical episode.

If you’ve watched the show before, you’re more than likely familiar with its typical season: strong opening episode, lackluster following episodes that keep the viewer just interested enough, huge three-part middle of the season arc that definitely involves one of the main characters being hurt and more than likely has a crossover with Private Practice, lackluster following episodes that makes you almost want to quit watching the show, killer ending (literally, in the case of last season, where a good portion of the cast was killed off) that makes you sigh and realize that of course you’ll be watching it next season.

Right?

So last night, in attempts to hook the viewer once again, the creators threw in a spin – a musical episode. Now, other shows have done this before – most notably Buffy the Vampire Slayer, which did it extremely well – so it was nothing new. But for a doctor show, that relies so heavily on melodrama, it seemed almost forced. (Scrubs pulled it off because the show, while medical themed, was just kooky enough that it worked. It had heart, rather than cheese). This was, in this season’s case, its three episode arc. Even Addison showed up.

The story was simple: Callie was in a major car accident, which left her, and her unborn baby, in critical condition. The singing was in her head. Okay, that makes sense. More Chicago than Grease. This wasn’t, of course, the first time a character was in critical condition. I’m pretty sure every character, up to now, has been operated on. (Alex made a funny quip in the episode, calling the hospital Mercy Death.) Since I hadn’t heard of Sara Ramirez wanting to leave the show, (reason why T.R. Knight’s George was killed off) I assumed she would live. (Of course, most hilariously, Izzy wasn’t killed off, even after the hilarious ghost sex arc and the actresses constant bashing of the show, but I’m pretty sure it was because the creators just wanted to torture her some more).

The only reason I could see the creators thinking this was a good idea was because it would a) show off Sara Ramirez’s amazing singing ability (she is a Tony award winner, afterall), and b) bring viewership back. It succeeded in both. Ramirez sounded fantastic; the show had a major viewing boost. Not surprisingly.

Anyway, the episode was pretty simple when it came to plot, but very typical for the show. Full of emotion, most of the characters cried, there was a lot of intense staring, and quite a few frantic surgery scenes. All in all, the making of a normal episode. I’ll admit, I was teary eyed a few times. Then there was the singing.

So, Grey’s Anatomy has made quite a few songs popular. How to Save a Life hit radios hard after it was featured, and let’s not forget Chasing Cars after season two’s extremely emotional finale. (I admit it, I cried). This episode took all of those popular songs, and had the cast singing them.

Seriously.

Again, it was in Callie’s head, but I couldn’t help burst out into laughter when Owen started belting Chasing Cars while wheeling Callie’s gurney in. That was the problem. The songs took away the drama, and instead made it…comical. Extremely comical. The actors had to concentrate on looking like they were singing (I’m assuming they recorded the songs prior), rather than acting. And when dialogue came up between song lyrics – wow. It was just…weird. And don’t get me started on the odd scene when all the guys started seducing their girlfriends with song. Okay. (That said, why were there musical numbers when Callie wasn’t involved? She wasn’t in that scene; there shouldn’t have been a song since she wasn’t imagining it, right? I digress.)

As for the singing, everyone did fine. I mean, no one was horrible, so that was a plus. But when Callie’s dying on the gurney, I didn’t need a chorus of doctors in the background singing This is How We Operate.

What I’ve always liked about the show was its raw emotions. It always went there. This episode just fell incredibly flat. The singing didn’t add anything, as it does in musicals. It just took away what the show excelled at.

I guess I wasn’t disappointed, because I didn’t expect much. And even though it failed as an episode, it definitely did what it intended to do: got me, as well as many other people on my Twitter feed, to watch. And I must admit, I’ll probably watch the next episode, too.

See for yourself here

Inspiration, Or Lack Thereof

I’ve been staring at the screen for about ten minutes. I want to write, I do. I want to describe what’s been going on, the wedding I just went to, my second to last semester of graduate school.

But.

I’m lacking inspiration. Which is annoying, because my fingers are aching to write something creative. Something that has nothing to do with work or school. Something just for myself.

But I’m stuck.

So.

How are you all doing?

NoDN Day 2

Dress: Target, Cardigan: NY&Co., Belt: Samir’s, boots: Macys

That’s right, my belt is actually Samir’s. I’m a huge fan of getting clothes on sale. I’ve actually never paid full price on something, including my wedding dress. That said, both the cardigan and boots were Black Friday purchases from last year. Who said you can’t shop for yourself?

The outfit is more Joan without the cardigan:

As for Samir…

He likes dressing up, so this challenge is easy for him.

November of Dressing Nicely

My friend Ernest is pretty awesome. After realizing that the men in Chicago don’t always try to dress well, he’s challenging them to change their ways. Throughout the month of November, he’s dressing up each day and documenting his outfit. He’s also asking other men in the area to do the same, and posting their pictures.

Now, okay, I’m not in Chicago, and I’m definitely not a male, but I found this to be a really awesome initiative. So, I decided to join. Throughout this month, I’m actually trying to dress well each day for work (even though we don’t have the slightest dress code). I’ll document my outfits on the blog. Samir is even joining in.

So, here’s day one.

Dress: NY&Co., Belt: Target, Tights: gift, Shoes: hand-me-down.

Samir got me the Joan Holloway pen/necklace for my birthday (which is today – I’m 27 – Yikes!), so I decided to rock it. The dress I got a year ago, and it’s so incredibly comfortable I wear it as much as humanly possible without being disgusting. The tights Megan got me as a thank you gift for planning her bridal shower. They’re so hard to match, but so fun to wear. Okay, the outfit isn’t perfect, but it’s professional enough and I didn’t actually decide to engage in the challenge until an hour ago. So give me credit for the first day – tomorrow will be better.

I like to call this Samir’s Chuck Bass ensemble. (We all know Bass loves purple). We got the pants a few weeks ago at GAP (thank you, Groupon, for the awesome discount). It’s so hard to find pants that fit Samir due to his height, but these are wonderful. We bought two pairs, we were that excited.

To new endeavors!