I was a pop punk kid in high school. I wore short sleeved Ataris t-shirts over long sleeves, even when it was hot outside (which it often was in Florida). I had skater sneakers, even though my skateboarding skills weren’t that great. I had arms of bracelets, and I wanted to look the part so people know I was more than just this bespectacled tiny girl. It was the simplest act of rebellion, one where the worst I did was dye my hair red, but it felt like me. I blasted the music out of my car’s stereo, because I needed to relate to the lyrics. I needed to feel them.

So what happened the other day was really interesting.

Let me set the scene –

S and I went to a sandwich shop. I was wearing my normal Saturday attire – jeans, tank top, cardigan, glasses, and messy bun. In other words, I looked like a librarian even on my day off. While I was sitting outside, waiting for S and the sandwiches, two teens – a girl and a boy – skateboarded in front of me and approached the counter. The girl was wearing a short sleeve band t-shirt over a long sleeve shirt. She had shorts on and chucks, and wore her hair long and loose. She had at least 20 bracelets snaking up her wrist.

When she passed, she glanced at me for a moment, and I recognized the look. Taking in my (rather dorky) appearance, she thought: I will never turn into that. 

Which was funny because when I looked at her, I thought: I was once you. 

The thing is, I love how I turned out – even if I rarely see bands perform live anymore and my Ataris t-shirt is long gone. The music still plays sometimes, but that phase is over. I’m happy with who I am now. And I hope she will be happy with her future, too.

There are some good book trailers. There are some okay ones. And then there’s this one that’s absolutely adorable.

Fantastic, right? There’s a book trailer done right!

Rump: The True Story of Rumpelstiltskin by Liesl Shurtliff comes out April 9th, and it’s already received a starred review by Kirkus. Here’s what it’s about:

In a magical kingdom where your name is your destiny, 12-year-old Rump is the butt of everyone’s joke.

Rump has never known his full name—his mother died before she could tell him. So all his life he’s been teased and bullied for his half-a-name. But when he finds an old spinning wheel, his luck seems to change. For Rump discovers he can spin straw into gold. Magical gold.

His best friend Red Riding Hood warns him that magic is dangerous—and she’s right! That gold is worth its weight in trouble. And with each thread he spins, Rump weaves himself deeper into a curse.

There’s only one way to break the spell: Rump must go on a quest to find his true name, along the way defending himself against pixies, trolls, poison apples, and one beautiful but vile-mannered queen. The odds are against him, but with courage and friendship—and a cheeky sense of humor—Rump just might triumph in the end.

Liesl and I share the same agent, so I’ve been anticipating this book for a while. I can’t wait to get it into the hands of my readers at the library. Congrats Liesl!

If you’ve seen the movie Pitch Perfect, remember the scene where all the girls are singing Miley Cyrus? And how Beca is too cool to sing along and just rolls her eyes until, finally, she gives in and starts singing?

That scene was so relatable to me. Because that was me.

Okay, I never thought I was too cool for something (let’s be honest, I never thought I was cool period), but I just didn’t want people to know I knew certain things. I didn’t want the attention.

It started in 5th grade.

For my 5th grade graduation, my parents got me a boom box. It was awesome. It had a cassette deck AND a CD player and I loved it so much. My first CD was the soundtrack to The Lion King. My second was MTV Party To Go Vol. 3. (My mom really liked MTV.) Ten-year-old me memorized every song on that album, including the first number, the ever-popular “Baby Got Back.”

Flash forward to high school. I was at a homecoming dance when the song came on. My friends cheered and screamed out the lyrics. And I…I mumbled. Yeah, I could rap along with the best of them, but I didn’t want my friends to know. I didn’t want the attention. I hated the thought of people pointing at me, and making me sing it again. I hated the idea of attention in general. So instead of showing off, I pretended to know lyrics here or there. I shrugged and mumbled and got lines wrong on purpose. And I was always excited when someone DID know all the lyrics. But I never admitted that I did, too. 

Around that time I got into the pop punk scene, and relied on the lyrics of The Ataris and Alkaline Trio and Blink 182 to get me through the days. But still, my mom loved the radio (and, admittedly, so did I) so I knew all the Backstreet Boys, all the N’Sync, all the LFO songs. And when around my pop punk friends, I’d pretend I didn’t.

It wasn’t just music. In college most of my best friends were guys. I watched a lot of films with them, I read a lot of the same books. Bret Easton Ellis. Chuck Palahniuk. You name it, I read it. But I also had a weakness for Prep by Curtis Sittenfeld. The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants by Ann Brashares. But I’d never admit that to them, because I didn’t want them to know. I didn’t want them to point it out, and draw attention to it – to me. I preferred being invisible in a way, one in the crowd.

Sometime my last year in college, I started to open up. I wish I could pinpoint the exact moment, but I can’t. It was gradual, a flower opening, the soft opening of a song. But I as I realized certain things made me happier than others, I stopped caring what others thought about my tastes. I started watching When Harry Met Sally with friends. I took out my girly books when guys were over. And one night, at a party at my friend George’s house, I screamed the lyrics to “Baby Got Back.” And you know what? No one cared. They high fived me, commented, and kept going on with their night.

The thing is, I liked fitting in with my friends. I didn’t want to be the star, I didn’t want all of the attention. I liked being in the background, the sidekick. I liked to blend. But after a while, blending got old. I didn’t want to just be that girl who had no opinion, no spark. I didn’t want to be afraid that people would stop liking me because I liked something different, because I knew something different. Because I realized if someone loved me for me, they wouldn’t care what I liked. And If I loved me for me, I wouldn’t be afraid to admit it.

The above is not a real poster, but if it was….

Speaking of libraries, I created a neat (if I do say so myself) display at work today and posted about it on Tumblr. It kind of blew up, which both surprised and excited me. So, thank you for loving library displays as much as I do!

(Oh, and the winner of the below contest was Arielle! Book is on its way!)